Saturday, August 1, 2009

Men are like NYC taxis, miss one, next few minutes one comin'


Long time Single Gals,

I have been going through my own drama! But nothing can keep a fabulous girl like me and you down. I am now an official "Single Gal". And actually I couldn't be happier. And you should be too because that means more dates to blog to my girls about and I'm sure plenty more mistakes to be made. But with you chicas comments I am sure it won't be that many mistakes ;)


So let's talk about this. Break-ups are hard. We have all been there before. But sometimes you have to take a step back and see if that relationship was building you up or breaking you down. Why settle with someone to just say you have someone. That's not fun! You deserve to be with someone that wants to build your empire together. You know your a great catch and if he isn't working out don't hang onto him like he is the last man you will ever meet. With my situation we were growing in two different directions. But his pace was very glacial as mine was a bit more accelerated and I feel that intimidated him. Which is a charecteristic that I do not like in a man. Your partner should always uplift you and encourage you. I want you to know your worth and know that their is a man out there that is sincere and wants to treat you well. So when you feel like your stuck in the rain without an umbrella ... just start dancing in the rain. No need to run for shelter your getting wet anyway :-P What I am saying is things may seem like they are falling apart and you can either let it break you down or you can believe you deserve more and when life hands you lemons take muddle them into citrus martinis :)


stay beautiful!


xx,

A