SG's Bachelor of the Moment: Aaron Maybin

Hi "Single Gals" my new thing is finding all the Eligible Bachelors and showcasing them right here! Not just any Single Guy... but the "Crème de la Crème!" So without further ado I present to you...

Aaron Maybin of the Buffalo Bills

Quickly his stats: 21 y.o , 6'4", 250pds, Graduate of Penn State, Member of the Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity

"I've seen that great men and women are often lonely. This is understandable, because they have built such high standards for themselves that they often feel alone. But that same loneliness is part of their ability to create greatness."-Aaron Maybin

Get a glimpse of him in 10 questions!

1. What is your sign? (may sound cheesy but it really does matter to us gals)

Aries

*pow pow me too*

2. Are you single,attached or in a complicated situation?

As Single As They Come.

3. What attracts you to a woman?

There are a million things about every woman that make her unique and Beautiful so its hard to generally say Im attracted to one thing in particular. However, one of the traits I am growing to love more about a woman is confidence. A woman who knows who she is and is comfortable in her own skin to know that she is both sexy and independent. She knows that she holds my attention because shes the Baddest thing in the room. Even if she is not the best looking woman, that confidence is sexy. There are too many women out there who are so beautiful and yet still insecure. Thats a big turn off for me. I need my woman to know she turns heads.

4. What do you think makes you a good catch (besides ur muscles)?

Lol, I think the fact that I know how to appreciate a Good woman. There are very few left out there so you have to treat them like they deserve to be treated. Like royalty. LOL, But really, i think that is also whats missing from a lot of men right now.

5. Your ideal first date?

I actually dont date to be honest with you.

**bonus:he is an artist... this is his work a piece titled "wrapped up in u 2" which he sells prints of for only $85.00**

6. What are you views on dating while in your industry? (locker room talk incl. do you involve yourself)

There are many guys that involve themselves with a lot of that Locker room talk, But thats just not my way. Its actually disappointing to see sometimes, when people will essentially get passed around and rotated like Musical chairs. Everybody is chasing something. Money, fame, attention, a player that makes more $ than her last, lol. Its sad, because Im sure there are some good women in the mix also. But who wants to give them the opportunity when u have the others to look out for. I just see it as being easier and more efficient way of keeping your guards up and protecting yourself to not date pple in the industry that have dated people i know.

7. Why do you think athletes get such a hard wrap...don't you think honesty will keep most of them out of hot water?

No it wont...for a very simple reason. Because most women dont really want to hear the real truth. They have had so many men attempt to run game on them that they subconsciously expect men to lie, Cheat, Disrespect them etc. And the funny thing is, things have gotten so bad that if you expose some woman to the truth instead of a lie, they dont even know how to react. Athletes get a hard wrap because too many guys play the games that I mentioned earlier. The thought of a real Monogamous relationship has been a lost notion to most athletes because of the fact that 99% of the woman that we meet only want us for what we have and not who we are. With that being the case, who can be trusted. A smart man knows that the answer to that question is no one. The Dating Game has become just that, a Game. A show and tell of Players Salaries and Wealth all in the pursuit of 1 thing...Sex. Guys have lost the desire to chase the dream so the find themselves content with the physical satisfaction of women they know they could never allow themselves to trust or love in the first place.

8. Which city has the most "groupies/opportunist"?

Miami without question, lol. Just think about the places where all your groupie friends plan ahead to go to...Super Bowl, Pro Bowl, NBA ALL Star Weekend etc.

(i'm gonna let him slide on the "all your groupie friends" lol my gals don't do the hunting they are the prey... moving right along)*side eye*

9. Would you ever go on a blind date?

Hell No, lol

10. last ? -- Will you be having a sex tape out soon or evidence of sex-ting hitting the web!!?

LOL, U WISH!! U CANT PUT THIS STUFF ON CAMERA. AMERICA AINT READY

If you want to get know him more follow his lead on twitter @AaronMaybin58

or check out his site! www.AaronMaybin.com

Swoon! I would also like to add that Aaron is hosting an charity event coming up "A Celebration of the Arts" in his hometown the DMV aka. DC, Maryland and Virginia! So go check him out! No stalkers please!

Don't forget to comment dolls and let me know what ?'s you would like to ask a future bachelor or if you have any great men you would like to featured. I'm a "sucker for love" and I hope this give's you dolls hope that there are still great men out there...

“Women are like apples on trees, the best ones are on the top of the tree. The men don’t want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and don’t want to get hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren’t so good but easy. So, the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who’s brave enough to climb all the way to the top because they value quality.”
–Author Unknown

*doublekisses*

A

Spice up your Love Life: Sex-ting..The Good & The Bad

Single Gals!

"If you don't send your boyfriend nudes, I feel sorry for him!"-Rhianna

I totally understand with technology these days it's easy to keep the spice in a relationship by sending a sexy picture or video to your significant other. It's harmless right. Your in love, your in the best shape of your life and you want him to know that this is all his! I agree...I have been one to send a few sext or actually a "few more" than a few to my man. But in all honesty if they were to surface (bc a bad break-up makes for a bitter man) or if I lost my phone I can honestly say I wouldn't be mad. Now is the time to do it! When your young! Lol. My thoughts are if things are in their place why not showboat a little. I mean no sagging no cellulite no stretch marks! The body is the most beautiful piece of art...so share with your man! But with that being said... once you press send you risk sharing that with the world. So my advice is to make sure your photo shoot is done right. Here are a few tips...and for the shy girls I got you too!

1. Alway wear what compliments you most. Be it his T-Shirt, your new lovely pieces from Agent Provocateur or a great pair of Christian Louboutins.

2. Make sure your hair and make up are done and don't forget to moisturize :) lol this is for you man put some effort into it!

3. Go hard or go home...If your gonna do this do it all the way! Make it sexy...look to Playboy for inspiration! It's fun!

4. Make sure he sends you pictures first! lol We normally aren't petty by putting dudes out (ex. Greg Odon) but it makes him also live out his sexual inhibitions which in the end turns you both on for an all out love fest as soon as you see each other! Nothing like a little anticipation to Spice Up Your Love Life

Btw...this isn't for everyone so PLAY AT YOUR OWN RISK and let's hope I don't end up seeing your goodies all over Perez Hilton! But if I do...they better be your most beautiful shots to date! lol

If you have any suggestions to add please free to comment! Or just comment and tell me why you agree or disagree ;)

Until next time dolls! xx *doublekisses*

A

Blind Date: His P.O.V.

Hey Dolls,

So the other day while browsing thru twitter (follow me @aprella_ella) . I saw a tweet from a friend of a friend saying he was prepping for a blind date set up by his mother. Wow! This was a young brother from North Carolina that was actually letting his mom play cupid! I had to grill him when the date was over and here is what he had to say.

He went into the date with an open mind and was very pleased with what his mother set up...I guess "Mother knows best!"

First Impression...

"she was absolutely gorgeous...beautiful face with a smile to match...her style was up to par."

The Date...

"started at Olive Garden for lunch, followed by a movie "Book of Eli", and a late night walk around the University Boardwalk"

The Vibe...

"was incredible...never bored me with anything she said...shared the same viewpoints on a lot of issues....she also had [sense of] humor which is required to have to deal with me"

Will there be a 2nd date...

"we established a 2nd date before the first was over..."

Well this date was a success and what I loved about it was his willingness to go on a blind date with an open mind. If more of us would let go of trying to control where our heart can find love and just go with the flow we may find someone that is worthy of our FABULOUSITY! So who is going to go on that next date when they have family or friend that says "I have someone who is perfect for you" ?!?

I hope you will...

until next time dolls *doublekisses*

New Year .... Still Single and Happy!

Happy New Year's Dolls!!

Check out this special that was on ABC focusing on Single Black Successful women. It's an eye-opener and it is also brings mind. Why limit myself? So dare I say it "SG" you are not alone but that doesn't mean give up! Continue to be your fabulous self and focus on becoming the best YOU! The Right Man will come along...but one thing I will say is don't settle! You worked hard to be this successful, beautiful and sexy woman...he should do the same!

Let me know what you think!

*doublekisses*

Men are like NYC taxis, miss one, next few minutes one comin'

Long time Single Gals,

I have been going through my own drama! But nothing can keep a fabulous girl like me and you down. I am now an official "Single Gal". And actually I couldn't be happier. And you should be too because that means more dates to blog to my girls about and I'm sure plenty more mistakes to be made. But with you chicas comments I am sure it won't be that many mistakes ;)

So let's talk about this. Break-ups are hard. We have all been there before. But sometimes you have to take a step back and see if that relationship was building you up or breaking you down. Why settle with someone to just say you have someone. That's not fun! You deserve to be with someone that wants to build your empire together. You know your a great catch and if he isn't working out don't hang onto him like he is the last man you will ever meet. With my situation we were growing in two different directions. But his pace was very glacial as mine was a bit more accelerated and I feel that intimidated him. Which is a charecteristic that I do not like in a man. Your partner should always uplift you and encourage you. I want you to know your worth and know that their is a man out there that is sincere and wants to treat you well. So when you feel like your stuck in the rain without an umbrella ... just start dancing in the rain. No need to run for shelter your getting wet anyway :-P What I am saying is things may seem like they are falling apart and you can either let it break you down or you can believe you deserve more and when life hands you lemons take muddle them into citrus martinis :)

stay beautiful!

xx,

A

8.2 seconds to fall in love

How long to do you need to fall in love? According to a recent study, the longer Mr Right At The Moment looks into your loving stare, the more interested he is! According to scientists, 8.2 seconds could mean true love, 4 seconds could me you are history!

Food for thought SG Dolls!

xx,

A

You can have whatever you want...except a life!

"Alot of times in a relationship particularly with women who are associated with big, powerful men. The women believe that love is supposed to mean that I cut off my life so that it gives life to yours. Well, It doesn’t take cutting yours off to give life to his. He has a great life. He has a great woman. He has a great future and that future may include some things he doesn’t like but it’s not going to kill him. I guess you have to decide if his comfort is your goal or if what’s good for the both of you is your goal'

Is it worth it?

SG's I know we all have dreamed of the day that HE would come in and sweep us off our feet. You know who I'm talking about. Just your type, personality, his own place and his own car. The guy that when you look at him you can see your childrens face. Trips to "change the forecast", shopping sprees just because, God Fearing and belongs to a church already :) Wow! What a hot tamale and you can't wait to see the look on your fellow "Single Gals" or the married girls ...who in your mind settled just to be a Mrs. Let's not forget your nosey Tia's (Aunties) who remind you every family function that you are still single. Sex is amahhhhzzzinnng btw! ;) Just in case you were wondering.

But there is a catch?

He doesn't want you to work. To some this is the ideal situation but to most of us driven, fearless and smart "Single Gals" this is a red flag! We all have that friend that has that life or something like it and hear all the compliants they have. And you say well if I were in her Louboutins I would have nothing to complain about! Yes you would! So before you assume that the grass is greener sit back and think about how all your dreams and aspirations would need to be flushed down the toilet for Mr. Perfect! Not so perfect huh?

You need a man that wants to build your empire together. That doesn't want you to give up your life to live in his. Trust me "Single Gals" he is out there so know your worth and know what you deserve.

xx,

A